Chapter 01
Choosing Who You Want to Marry
A critical life decision that deserves prayer, patience, and clarity. Who you marry shapes nearly every season that follows — choose with God, not just with feeling.
Our foundation
Seven foundations of a Christ-centered marriage
This community is built on more than profiles and matches. It is built on a vision of marriage we believe Scripture describes — faithful, joyful, and forever rooted in Christ.
Why a foundation matters
A house built on the Rock
Every couple we hope to see meet on this site will one day face storms. Finances, family, ministry, illness, parenting, weariness. What carries a marriage through is not chemistry — it is the foundation it was built on.
The seven principles below shape how we think about Adventist courtship and marriage, and they are the same principles we encourage every member to study, pray over, and live before they ever say “I do.”
“Therefore whosoever heareth these sayings of mine, and doeth them, I will liken him unto a wise man, which built his house upon a rock.”Matthew 7:24
The seven foundations
What we hope every couple builds on
Drawn from the themes of 'The Hidden Treasures of Married Life' by Patience Fuzane — a resource we recommend to every member preparing for serious courtship.
Chapter 02
Build Your Home on God the Solid Rock
A marriage anchored in Christ withstands what shifting sand cannot. When God is the foundation, the storms of life test the house but never collapse it.
Chapter 03
A Servant-Like Approach to Your Marriage
The greatest in the Kingdom is the servant of all — and the same is true at home. Love grows where two people compete to out-serve, not out-win, one another.
Chapter 04
A Snippet From King Solomon's Prayer
Solomon asked God for wisdom above all else. Marriage calls for that same humble plea — wisdom to lead, to listen, to forgive, and to discern season by season.
Chapter 05
A Healthy Body is a Healthy Mind
Caring for the temple God has given us — through rest, nutrition, and movement — strengthens not only our health, but our patience, our presence, and our love.
Chapter 06
The Bedroom Communication / Language
Intimacy is a sacred language between husband and wife. Honest, tender, God-honoring communication in this space protects unity and deepens lifelong oneness.
Chapter 07
Remember, You're Not Marrying an Angel
Your spouse is a redeemed human being, not a perfect one — and so are you. Grace, forgiveness, and realistic expectations keep love alive through every weakness.
Chapter titles from “The Hidden Treasures of Married Life” by Patience Fuzane.
Recommended reading
The Hidden Treasures of Married Life
A devotional and practical resource on communication, conflict, forgiveness, and the daily habits that protect love. We consider it a meaningful companion for couples preparing for marriage and for those already on the journey.
Learn more about the book