Community Guidelines

• Use your own recent photos and your real first name.
• State your age, location and marital situation truthfully.
• Complete verification. It is what makes this community trustworthy.

• Come with intention: courtship, marriage or godly friendship, and say which.
• No sexual content, no crude language, no pressure of any kind.
• If someone is not interested, let them be. Silence is an answer.

• Keep conversations on the site until you are comfortable.
• Never send money, gift cards or financial details to anyone you meet here.
• Meet first in a public place, and tell someone you trust where you are going.
• Report anything that feels off. Reports are read by a person, and stay confidential.

• Harassment, insults, hate speech, or contempt for anyone's background or church.
• Married or otherwise committed members seeking a relationship.
• Selling, recruiting, promoting a business, or fundraising.
• Sharing another member's photos, messages or details outside the site.
• Anyone under 18.

Depending on what happened, we may remove a photo or bio, ask for further verification, hide a profile from search, suspend an account, or close it permanently. Serious matters, including anything involving a minor or a threat of harm, are reported to the proper authorities.

Every profile and conversation can be reported from the dashboard, and you can always write to us through the Contact page. Tell us what happened and who was involved, and we will look into it.